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Surviving Christmas Without Losing Your Joy (or Your Marriage) // 15

Surviving Christmas Without Losing Your Joy (or Your Marriage)

If Christmas feels more like pressure than peace, this episode is for you. In this honest Christmas Eve conversation, Elyse (Australia) and Michelle (USA) talk about expectations, stress, family dynamics, and how Christian mums can survive the holidays without losing their joy—or snapping at the people they love most. Drawing from Colossians 3:17, they gently reframe Christmas as an opportunity to live, serve, and love as representatives of Jesus, not performers of perfection.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why Christmas Day itself isn’t stressful—but expectations are

• The pressure cooker of family dynamics, travel, and mental load

• Doing everything “as a representative of the Lord” (Colossians 3:17)

• Letting go of Pinterest pressure and unrealistic standards

• How simplifying traditions protects your joy and your marriage

• Practical ways to care for yourself during the holidays

3 key takeaways

• Christmas isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence. Expectations create stress; grace creates peace.

• Your attitude matters as much as your actions. Even small moments reflect who (and what) we’re living for.

• Simplifying isn’t failure—it’s wisdom. Especially for mums carrying the mental load.

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Christmas Traditions Moms Actually Love (and the Ones We’re Ditching This Year) // 14

If Christmas traditions are starting to feel like a second job, this episode is your permission slip to simplify. Elyse (Australia) and Michelle (USA) talk about what they keep, what they skip (yes, Elf on the Shelf), and how to build meaningful memories without the Pinterest pressure.

In this episode, we talk about:

• The traditions we actually enjoy vs. the ones that quietly drain us

• Elf on the Shelf (why it’s a hard pass for many moms)

• Aussie Christmas culture: beach mornings, seafood, carols in the park

• Staying home Christmas morning: slow, cosy, and kid-friendly

• “Something you want, something you need, something to read” gift idea

• Why simple can be more spiritual (and more joyful)

3 key takeaways

• If it’s making you stressed and snappy, it’s not serving your family. Simple can still be special.

• Traditions should make memories—not add mental load. You don’t need to keep up with imaginary Pinterest mums.

• Ask “why are we doing this?” Is it drawing you closer to Jesus and each other—or just pressure?

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Santa, the “Perfect Christmas Mom,” and Keeping Jesus at the Center // 13

Is Santa okay for Christian families? And why does Christmas make mums feel like they have to be magical, matchy, and endlessly cheerful? Elyse and Michelle get honest about Santa stories, Pinterest pressure, over-gifting, and the myth of the “perfect Christian Christmas mom.”

They talk pajamas, presents, Hobby Lobby hauls, and then gently pull it all back to Luke, the incarnation, and simple ways to invite Jesus into the chaos instead of trying to perform your way to a picture-perfect December.

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Key Takeaways

1. Santa isn’t the savior—Jesus is.
   You can handle Santa differently in each family, but the non-negotiable is that Christmas is about Christ, not a man in a red suit or a pile of presents.

2. The “perfect Christmas mom” does not exist.
   Social media, magazines, and movies sell a styled, staged version of Christmas that doesn’t include toddlers, tight budgets, or perimenopausal mood swings—so stop holding yourself to that standard.

3. Simplifying is deeply spiritual, not lazy.
   Fewer gifts, experience-based presents, realistic traditions, and less “stuff” can ease the mental load and make more room for Scripture, prayer, and actually enjoying your family.

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Hormones, Holidays, and Holy Chaos // 12

Hormones flaring, Christmas coming, and everyone’s one comment away from tears? Elyse and Michelle get honest about PMS, perimenopause, stress, sleep, and why the holiday season can tip even the most “chill” mum over the edge.

From farmer’s market cry sessions to the mental load nobody sees, they unpack what’s hormones, what’s attitude, and what’s actually an invitation from God to slow down and pay attention.

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Key Takeaways

1. Hormones matter—but they’re not the whole story.
   PMS and perimenopause are real, but so is the fruit of the Spirit. The tension between the two? That’s where growth happens.

2. Stress hides in plain sight.
   Christmas planning, finances, family tension, toxic products, relational strain, and the constant “mum mental load” all spike cortisol and impact sleep, mood, and hormone balance.

3. You’re not imagining it—and you’re not alone.
   Bloodwork, naturopathic support, removing synthetic fragrance, better sleep, real nutrition, and talking to a safe friend can all bring clarity and peace in hormone-heavy seasons.

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Gratitude in the Chaos: Marriage, Motherhood & a Different Way to See Your Life // 11

What if gratitude isn’t fluffy Pinterest quotes but actual warfare against overwhelm, bitterness, and resentment in your home? In this episode, Elyse and Michelle talk about choosing gratitude in the real chaos of marriage, motherhood, laundry piles, and holiday pressure.

From Thanksgiving reflections to PTSD recovery, negative-thinking ruts, and husbands who “miss” the sink, they unpack how simple gratitude habits can rewire your brain, soften your heart, and shift the atmosphere in your home—without pretending everything is fine when it’s not.

Key Takeaways

• Gratitude is not toxic positivity; it’s a biblical, practical weapon against bitterness, anxiety, and constant negativity.

• Simple practices (like three things you’re thankful for about your husband or kids) can reframe your day and your marriage.

• How shifting from “have to” to “get to” in chores and motherhood changes your posture toward your home and your people.

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Mombods, Aging & Learning to Love the Body God Gave You // 10

From postpartum to perimenopause, what do you do when your body feels foreign, squishy and nothing like it “used to be”? In this honest conversation, Elyse and Michelle talk mumbods, hormones, comparison, bounce-back culture, and how to see your changing body through a biblical lens instead of shame.

They unpack the pressure to “bounce back,” the mental health side of body obsession, and why stewarding your health as a Christian mum is about serving your family and honoring God—not chasing a certain jean size.

Key Takeaways

• Why “bouncing back” after babies is a toxic and unrealistic expectation for most Christian mums.

• How a biblical view of health and beauty (hello 3 John 1:2) helps you care for your body without obsessing over it.

• Practical encouragement: from movement and hormones to finding clothes that actually fit your current body, not the one you had at 18.

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What We’d Tell Our Younger Wife Selves: Real Talk on Marriage, Intimacy & Unrealistic Expectations // 9

Two imperfect people, one sacred covenant: Elyse and Michelle get real about what they’d tell their younger wife selves—expectations, prayer, intimacy, and communication. From peacekeeping vs. peacemaking to timing hard talks, counseling, and making marriage a yearly “work-on-it” priority, this is tender, practical, and unfiltered.

Key Takeaways

• Your spouse can’t complete you—only Jesus can; unrealistic expectations sabotage connection.

• Pray (together if possible), communicate honestly, and pick wise timing—think side-by-side walks.

• Intimacy gets better with safety, questions, and practice; invite trusted older women into the convo.

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Grace Over Guilt: What We’d Tell Our Younger Mom Selves // 8

Ever wish you could go back and encourage your younger mom self? In this episode, Elyse and Michelle open up about guilt, grace, and the impossible standards we set for ourselves as mothers. From toddler chaos to quiet-time guilt, they share what they’ve learned about letting go, finding identity in Christ, and trusting God to gently lead you—right where you are.

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💡 Key Takeaways

• Let go of “supermom” expectations—examine whether choices elevate you or honor God.

• Your greatest ministry happens at home; motherhood is holy and refining (Isaiah 40:11).

• Surround yourself with wise counsel, pick your battles, and remember: grace over guilt.

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Jesus, Candy, and the Creepy Stuff: Our Unfiltered Talk on Halloween // 7

Is Halloween harmless fun or a doorway to darkness? Elyse (AUS) and Michelle (USA) share candid childhood stories, current convictions, and practical ways to guard little hearts while keeping family peace—without shaming other parents. Unfiltered stories. Unapologetic faith. Real motherhood.

3 Key Takeaways

• Discernment over default: Take Halloween (and media choices) to the Lord; let the Holy Spirit shape your family’s convictions—and feel free to change as He leads.

• Guard little eyes: Be mindful of what enters your home and kids’ imaginations; use post-movie chats to process themes and choices together.

• Offer bright alternatives: Consider church “light nights,” Reformation Day fun, dress-up without the dark, or a family night out to sidestep scary content.

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Pregnancy & Infant Loss: Finding God’s Nearness in Grief // 6

Pregnancy loss isn’t a sidebar—it’s part of many mothers’ stories. Michelle shares seven pregnancies, three live births, and the stillbirth of her son, Jackson, while Elyse opens up about endo, fertility grief, and near-loss—offering honest, faith-filled ways to grieve, talk about it, and love families walking through it.

Key Takeaways

• Permission to lament: why grief after miscarriage, stillbirth, and infertility is real—and how Scripture steadies us without platitudes.

• How to help: what to say (and not say), practical support that truly serves, and the quiet power of presence and prayer.

• Community matters: how the Church, friends, and husbands can show up with meals, messages, and long-haul care.

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